Before I had children I must admit I had NO clue how much parenting changes your entire life.  Nothing is the same.   Gone are the days of leaving the house in a flash, it takes us a good 10 minutes to get everyone and everything ready.  Shoes, socks, arguments about socks, books, crayons, legos, diapers, wipes, water bottles, and on and on.  You get me.  I do remember I used to just grab my purse, maybe  some cash in my back pocket, and head out.  I would be in the car and out of the driveway in under a minute. One thing I have had to learn now that…